Sunday, March 13, 2016

My secret sauce

1) Describe five ways in which you think you have human capital that is truly unique. 

  • Because my family didn't force any religion on me, my "spirituality" was rooted in experience rather than tradition.
  • My humor tends to push the boundaries of what is generally accepted. I enjoy joking about subjects that people may find uncomfortable, pretty much the opposite of political correctness. 
  • Ever since I was young, I cared about my appearance a bit more than others, whether it was the clothes I was wearing, my shoes, or my hair. I guess the term would be metrosexual.
  • Due to my upbringing, I would say I have a very open mind. I am always taking bits of knowledge from different ideologies and I never immediately dismiss anyones views.
  • I have had a passion for art and design since I was little and it has stuck with me up to this point.
2) Interview the five people who know you the best.

  • Mom - My mom knows me the best by far so I wasn't surprised when she was touching on topics that I have in my own list. She also reminded me of huge aspects of myself that I forgot about like my "aesthetic." 

  • Arianna - What she said is pretty spot on. I do find it easy to get along with people but I am also very opinionated and I won't shy away from telling people how I feel. 

  • Dad - The video cut off because my phone ran out of space but he finished off by saying I have the ability to stand out when I walk into a room. He said I was creative which was similar to one of the attributes I chose for myself. He also said I had an interesting way of looking at things which I am not quite sure what he means.

  • Jed - What he said is very true and even though I didn't put fairness as one of my top five, I do always try to keep things equal. I think he answered with this because I try to give him gas money, food, etc. when he's is driving or stuff like that.

  • Sebastian - This was very similar to something my dad said. I didn't expect to hear the same thing twice from the people I interviewed.

Reflection: I thought there were a lot of similarities between what I wrote and what my family and friends said about me. There were also things I had forgotten about or didn't realize until they were said out loud. I think my friends assess me more based off the experiences we've had and my parents assess me in a similar way in how I assess myself. I would say this is due to nature of our respective relationships. Although the way they came to their conclusions may have been different, I believe they were all correct in what they said. If I were to change my list now, I would add what my mom said about the aesthetic I have and also how my opinions are deeply rooted and I proudly stand by them.

5 comments:

  1. Isn't that interesting that some parts of ourselves we don't notice others do? I came across the same realization that people understand me more from my actions and how we treat people. I enjoyed reading your blog!
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  2. The assessment of yourself was very detailed and I like that you can capitalize on your strengths and understand them about yourself. Its also very clear that the people who know you know a little more than you do about yourself.. Sometimes we are our biggest critics and the people around you can really give you insight on what your true qualities are. Congrats on being such a well rounded person! Check my blog out here:http://blovejoyblog.blogspot.com/2016/02/idea-napkin-no-2.html

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  3. I think easily the most interesting thing that I drew from your personal brand was establishing your different identities like whether you're "spiritual" and "metrosexual." I think trying to find those identities are a task that isn't really emphasized when we're adolescents, and at a time where we really benefit from it because we're trying to figure ourselves out. Keep up the good work.

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  4. Derek, I got excited when I read your second bullet point! I do the same thing and then I realize how sensitive everyone has become. I also appreciate your honesty. I think the fact that your assesment of you matched up with other's assessments is a good sign that you know what you are made of. Best of luck in the rest of the class!

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  5. Derek, I thought your five characteristics were very unique and really helped in getting me to understand what your secret sauce is. I also really liked how you mentioned that people can assess you differently based off of the varied types of experiences that they have had with you. http://minaaomar.blogspot.com/2016/03/idea-napkin-no-2.html

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